I am an adult now.

I support myself, I paid my way through college and I am moving myself to NYC. I have a great support system of friends and family that have helped me along the way however; I am the one who has the ambition and motivation to continue my success.

I have learned to ignore lesser bitches because I am a woman. People who play games are jealous and jealousy stems from insecurity.

I have learned that if you are insecure in yourself or your relationship there IS a reason for that. Always trust your instinct.

I have given 2nd, 3rd, 4th and 5th chances to people who don't deserve them because I understand that we all make mistakes. It's what you do with that second chance that makes all the difference but unfortunately, people will usually let you down.

There are some people who I will always love because I cannot remove the strings from my heart. I will always show them more grace than they deserve.

I try to listen to my friends without judgment because we all make mistakes by doing what we want rather than what we need. An adult already knows the right decision to make but will not always do so. A friend who will listen and accept rather than judge and preach is the person you can confide all of your secrets in.

I am learning to let my walls down and to be honest. I have gotten hurt this way but at least I am mature enough to realize that I went in with an open and honest heart. Can you do the same?

I make mistakes and I will not always do what's right but I can accept responsibility. I can take accountability for my actions instead of giving excuses like a coward.

This is why I can go to bed at night knowing that no matter what happened that day, I can start the next day with my head held high.

Can you?